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My Book Lists

Spirituality & Consciousness

Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri
This is easily my top 5 books of all time. It can usually be found within arms reach of wherever I'm working. It's a poetic story that maps the spiritual journey we all must take to enlightenment. It begins in the dark wood where the main character is lost and afraid and then is met by a guide who journeys with him into the depths of hell, back up into purgatory and into the 7 levels of heaven. It's full of allegory and symbolism that has helped me tremendously in navigating my own life path, especially during times of transition and confusion. It's a must have resource for any serious spiritual seeker. You can find it on Amazon here.

A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
This book has by far had the most powerful impact on my own spiritual awakening. I've read it at least 10 times and have listened to hundreds of hours of discourse by Eckhart Tolle over the years. No other spiritual teacher comes close to his ability to explain consciousness and get others to see one's eternal nature like him. In all the years of listening/reading him, I have never heard him repeat himself. His wisdom is truly infinite. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Gospel of Thomas
Although not a book, the Gospel of Thomas (also known as the Coptic Gospel of Thomas) is an extra-canonical sayings gospel. It was discovered near Nag Hammadi, Egypt, in December 1945 among a group of books known as the Nag Hammadi library. Its 114 verses that were spoken by Jesus. There is tremendous wisdom in these writings and I love reviewing them often. They are more gnostic in their view. To me Jesus comes off as more of a wise old shaman, speaking words of wisdom from the dark-side, rather than some Ghandi like figure. These sayings read very similar to "The Wheels of Time" by Carlos Castenada, a book on shamanism. I honestly think this is a more accurate depiction of the one they called the "Lion of Judah". My favorite verse, "I am not your teacher, for you have drank and become intoxicated by the bubbling spring which I have measured out" I think this verse clearly shows that Jesus was probably using psychedelics – probably magic mushrooms – to induce mystical states in his disciples and teach divinity through direct experience. You can find the full list here.

The Path of the Warrior Mystic by Angel Millar
I absolutely love this book. It's geared towards men and teaches how to live a powerful, fully embodied human experience while also acknowledging the spiritual nature of existence, and how to move between the two poles as a path to wholeness and fulfillment. It talks a lot about taking radical responsibility for everything that happens to you in life and also unapologetic self expression through art and career. Highly recommended for men, and women who want to understand men better. You can find it here on Amazon.

Yogananda by Paramahansa Yogananda
Yogananda's life journey has been very inspirational to me. His writings are brimming with wisdom, and his approach to spirituality has a way of anchoring you back into your eternal nature. I have referred to his teachings numerous times during my own spiritual transitions. The book is available on Amazon here.

The Tao de Ching by Lao Tzu
Lao Tzu's Tao de Ching is a philosophical masterpiece that beckons the reader into the mystical world of Tao. I love listening to this book while I am traveling through places like airports into new dimensions of physical reality. The brings me a lot of peace while listening to it. The profound insights packed into this little volume are a treasure trove for any truth seeker which bring you deeply into presence moment. The verses are full of wisdom, often paradoxical, prompting me to question, introspect, and explore the nature of reality in new ways. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Book of Lilith by Barbara Black Koltuv
The Book of Lilith is a riveting exploration of the dark divine feminine. It's a fascinating delve into mythology, symbolism, and the power of the repressed feminine. Koltuv's insights have proved enlightening, urging me to understand the myriad expressions of divinity. This book has been instrumental in my journey of understanding the dynamic interplay between light and shadow, especially within intimate relationships. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Religion of Tomorrow by Ken Wilber
Ken Wilber's The Religion of Tomorrow is a brilliant synthesis of science, psychology, and spirituality. His integral approach to religion gives a fresh perspective on our spiritual journeys. Wilber's wisdom is boundless, and his ability to interweave diverse strands of knowledge is admirable. This book has been an excellent resource in my quest to understand the future of spirituality and its role in our collective evolution. It's a must-read for those seeking to grasp the contours of tomorrow's faith. You can find it on Amazon here.

Integral Psychology by Ken Wilber
Wilber's comprehensive approach to psychology, which blends Eastern and Western philosophies, is groundbreaking. This book offers a holistic view of human consciousness, providing a roadmap for personal growth and self-realization. Integral Psychology has been instrumental in my quest for a more integrated understanding of the human psyche. Available on Amazon here.

The Universal Christ by Richard Rohr
This book is a divine revelation in itself. Rohr's interpretation of Christ not as a person, but as a cosmic, universal event I believe is very accurate. His teachings are clear and pull many references from the Bible, guiding us towards a deeper understanding of divinity in its most expansive form. This book is not just about Christ, it's about us, about the Christ nature within each one of us. It's a guide for anyone aspiring to understand the universality of divine love. Highly recommended. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
This book is a spiritual guide in the guise of a beautiful parable. Coelho's narrative is simple yet profound, taking us on a journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening through the eyes of a shepherd boy. The Alchemist was a true inspiration for me in my younger years, reminding me that we all have a 'Personal Legend', and that the universe conspires to help us achieve it. The book is a testament to the transformative power of dreams and the importance of following our hearts. Available on Amazon here.

Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse
Siddhartha is an enlightening tale that traces the spiritual journey of a man named Siddhartha during the time of the Buddha. This book has been an invaluable companion on my own path to self-discovery. Hesse's lyrical prose and profound insights into the human spirit and our eternal quest for enlightenment have made this book a cherished resource. Find it on Amazon here.

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
The Four Agreements is a practical guide to personal freedom and spiritual enlightenment. Each agreement is a life lesson, and together, they offer a powerful framework for releasing self-limiting beliefs and embracing our true potential. Ruiz's wisdom is simple yet profound, and a great resource for navigating life's challenges. Available on Amazon here.

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
The Prophet is a timeless classic that offers wisdom on various aspects of human life. Gibran's poetic prose and profound insights into the human condition make this book a treasure. His teachings on love, freedom, pain, and joy resonate deeply and have given me a lot of clarity at different times in my life. It's a book that invites contemplation and offers consolation, making it a valuable addition to any spiritual library. Available on Amazon here.

Mysteries of the Dark Moon by Demetra George
This book is an entrancing journey into the world of the feminine divine, exploring the power and wisdom of the dark moon. George's insights into the hidden aspects of the feminine have been eye-opening, prompting me to explore the mysteries and power of the shadow self. This is one of my favorites books for understanding the interplay of light and darkness and the nature of the feminine. Available on Amazon here.

Light on Life by B.K.S. Iyengar
This book is an invaluable resource for any spiritual seeker or yogi. Iyengar's teachings go beyond the physical practice of yoga, diving into the philosophical and spiritual aspects. His wisdom is a beacon, guiding readers to understand their own bodies and minds. Available on Amazon here.

The Cosmic Serpent by Jeremy Narby
The Cosmic Serpent takes readers on an enthralling exploration of shamanism and DNA. Narby's insights into the ancient wisdom of indigenous cultures and their connection with modern scientific understanding are mind-blowing. This book has deepened my appreciation for the interconnectedness of all life and the intricate web of existence. Available on Amazon here.

The Universe is a Dream by Alexander Marchand
This book is a delightful dive into the world of non-duality and the illusory nature of our reality. Marchand's unique approach to explaining complex spiritual concepts through comic illustrations is both engaging and enlightening. The Universe is a Dream was a game-changer for me, offering a fresh and clear perspective on our shared reality. Available on Amazon here

Tryptamine Palace by James Oroc
This book offers a fascinating exploration into the world of 5-MeO-DMT, a potent psychedelic compound. Oroc's personal experiences and insights into the transformative power of this substance provide a profound perspective on consciousness and our connection with the universe. Tryptamine Palace has broadened my understanding of the role of entheogens in spiritual awakening and self-discovery. Available on Amazon here.

The Holy Bible
An enduring source of spiritual guidance and wisdom, the Holy Bible has been a cornerstone of my spiritual journey and continues to be more so as times goes on. Its teachings and parables offer deep insights into human nature, divinity, and our relationship with the Divine. It can be found on Amazon here.

The Kybalion by The Three Initiates
This book is a treasure trove of hermetic philosophy. The Kybalion's teachings on the universal principles governing existence have been instrumental in shaping my spiritual understanding. Its wisdom is timeless and profound, providing a blueprint for personal transformation and spiritual enlightenment. A must-read for those on a path of self-discovery. Available on Amazon here.

DMT and Prophecy by Rick Strassman
This book is a fascinating exploration into the world of DMT and its potential connection with prophetic experiences. Strassman's research and insights have expanded my understanding of the mysterious realms of consciousness accessed through entheogens and the revelations in the Bible. This book is a beacon for those seeking to understand the intersection of spirituality and psychedelics. Available on Amazon here.

LSD and the Mind of the Universe by Christopher M. Bache
Bache's personal journey with LSD and his insights into the vast realms of consciousness it unveils are very enlightening. This book provides a profound perspective on our connection with the cosmos and the transformative power of psychedelics. Available on Amazon here.

Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side by David Deida
David Deida's work has been a profound influence on my understanding of the connections between spirituality, relationships and personal growth. "Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side" delves deep into the complexities of love, commitment, and the spiritual journey towards self-realization. Deida brilliantly articulates the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies, and how they interplay in relationships. It's a compelling exploration of the dance between light and shadow, love and fear, freedom and commitment. I regard this book as a definitive guide to the path of a more conscious and fulfilling partnership rooted in spiritual truth. Find it on Amazon here.

The Surrender Experiment by Michael A. Singer
Singer's autobiographical journey of surrendering to the flow of life is a spiritual masterpiece. The Surrender Experiment has taught me the transformative power of surrendering to the universe's plan. It serves as a beautiful reminder to let go of resistance and embrace life as it unfolds. Also a great companion to the Tao de Ching. Available on Amazon here.

The Archetypal Cosmos by Keiron Le Grice
This book is a fascinating delve into the world of archetypes and their cosmic connections. Le Grice's exploration of the interplay between psychological and cosmic forces offers a fresh perspective on the nature of reality and our place within it. The Archetypal Cosmos has expanded my understanding of the universe's intricate web and its reflections within our own psyches. A great addition to any of Carl Jungs work. Available on Amazon here.

The Zealot by Reza Aslan
Aslan's exploration of the historical Jesus is both enlightening and compelling. His meticulous research and insightful analysis paint a vivid portrait of Jesus the man, as distinct from Jesus the Christ. The Zealot has broadened my understanding of the socio-political context of Jesus' life, making it an essential read for anyone interested in spiritual history. Highly recommended for those looking to understand the life of Jesus. Available on Amazon here.

God by Reza Aslan
This book is a thought-provoking exploration of the evolving concept of God throughout human history. Aslan's insights into the evolution of our understanding of the divine provide a fresh perspective on spirituality and religion and towards comprehending the multifaceted nature of the Divine. Available on Amazon here.

The Power of Kabbalah by Rav Berg
This book is a treasure trove of mystical wisdom. Berg's teachings on the Kabbalah provide deep insights into the spiritual laws that govern our universe. The Power of Kabbalah offers a truly rich tapestry of mystical knowledge and practical guidance. Available on Amazon here.

The Essential Zohar by Rav Berg
"The Essential Zohar" by Rav Berg is a phenomenal work that opens the door to the mystical world of Kabbalah. It's a deep, insightful read that has significantly influenced my spiritual perspective. Berg, a leading figure in the modern Kabbalistic movement, simplifies the complex teachings of the Zohar, making them accessible and understandable to the everyday reader. The book is filled with profound wisdom and spiritual insights that have the power to shift one's consciousness and view of the universe. It's a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the mysteries of existence. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Language of Creation by Matthieu Pageau
This book is amazing. I often have to stop reading after a few pages and contemplate for days on end just to fully comprehend its message. It offers a fascinating exploration into the symbolic language of creation as expressed in ancient myths and scriptures. Pageau's insights have definitely expanded my understanding of the divine narrative woven into the fabric of reality. The Language of Creation is a must-read for anyone seeking to comprehend the profound symbolism inherent in our cosmos. Available on Amazon here.

Shadow Dance by David Richo
Richo's exploration of the human shadow and its role in personal growth is both insightful and transformative. It was my first introduction to shadow work. Shadow Dance had a huge impact on me right before an Iboga retreat I attended in Costa Rica, by helping me embrace and integrate the darker aspects of my psyche. It's a vital resource for anyone on a path of self-realization. Available on Amazon here.

Into the Dark Wood by James Hollis
This book has quickly become one of my all time favorites and a lighthouse for my midlife transition. Hollis's profound exploration of the psyche's deep, dark woods has offered solace and guidance in my own explorations. This is a book for anyone who is experiencing a major life transition to traverse the unknown in search of self-understanding. You can find it on Audible here.

The Red Book by Carl Jung
Jung's Red Book is a profound dive into the depths of the human psyche and the patterns within consciousness. I think everyone should read this book at least one. It's a rich tapestry of dreams, visions, and reflections that provide a unique window into the subconscious mind. This book is great for integrating intense psychedelic experiences and for understanding the complex interplay of archetypes and symbols within our psyche. Available on Amazon here.

The Way of Integrity by Martha Beck
This book offers invaluable insights into the transformative power of living in alignment with our true selves. Beck's wisdom is both practical and profound, providing a roadmap to authenticity and wholeness. The Way of Integrity is a great resource for anyone's journey towards living a more honest and integrated life. Available on Amazon here.

The Wheel of Time by Carlos Castaneda
Carlos Castaneda's "The Wheel of Time" is a captivating journey into the world of shamanism and altered states of consciousness. This book is a compilation of quotes from Castaneda's earlier works, and it presents a fascinating exploration of the teachings of the enigmatic shaman, Don Juan. The spiritual wisdom and insights packed in this book are life changing, often prompting me to question the nature of reality and my own perception of the world. It's a must-read for anyone seeking a profound understanding of self, reality, and the mysteries of life. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Gene Keys by Richard Rudd 
This book is a fascinating exploration into the world of human potential and also patterns within consciousness. The Gene Keys' insights into genetic codes and their connection to our spiritual evolution have been a game-changer for me. It offers a unique blend of science and spirituality that provides a roadmap for self-discovery and personal transformation. A must-have resource for anyone on a journey of self-realization. Available on Amazon here.

Spiral Dynamics by Don Beck and Christopher Cowan
Spiral Dynamics is an enlightening dive into the evolution of human consciousness. The book's framework for understanding the stages of psychological development has been instrumental in shaping my understanding of societal and personal growth. This book is for anyone seeking to comprehend the intricate dynamics of human evolution and the psyche. It's been very pivotal in shaping my perspective on understanding how to relate with people at different levels of psychological development. Available on Amazon here.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
Deida's insights into masculinity and spiritual growth are both empowering and transformative. His wisdom on embracing one's true nature and living with purpose and authenticity has been life changing. I listened to this book a lot in my early thirties and it really helped me understand my relationship to the feminine in very profound ways. It's a must-read for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of modern manhood. Available on Amazon here.

Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle
This book is a profound exploration of the power of silence and stillness. I've probably listened to this book close to 30 times. Tolle's teachings on the transformative potential of living in the present moment have been a beacon in my spiritual journey.  It's a very powerful tool for reconnecting with your inner essence. Highly recommended. Available on Amazon here.

Inner Engineering by Sadhguru
Sadhguru's insights into the science and technology for inner well-being are both enlightening and practical. Inner Engineering provides a roadmap for self-discovery and personal transformation. It's been a valuable resource in my journey towards achieving a more balanced and joyful inner state. Available on Amazon here.

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
Frankl's poignant narrative of his experiences in Nazi concentration camps, paired with his insights into human resilience and the search for meaning. This book is a testament to the indomitable human spirit and the power of purpose. Highly recommended. Available on Amazon here.

You Are the Placebo by Dr. Joe Dispenza
This book offers a compelling exploration of the mind-body connection and the transformative power of belief. Dispenza's insights into the potential of our thoughts to influence our physical reality have been deeply transformative. You Are the Placebo has broadened my understanding of the power we hold within ourselves to shape our health and our lives. Available on Amazon here.

Illusions by Richard Bach
This book is a gem, serving as a profound exploration of reality and the power of our beliefs. Bach's narrative, filled with wisdom and insight, invites us to question our perceptions and embrace the miraculous in everyday life. Illusions was a book I read early on my journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening. Highly recommended. 

Sex, Ecology, Spirituality by Ken Wilber
This is a monster of a book but well worth the read. Wilber presents a compelling vision for a more holistic, integrated society. His insights into the intersections of sex, ecology, and spirituality have broadened my understanding of the interconnectedness of all life. It's a thought-provoking read that invites us to envision a more harmonious future. Available on Amazon here.

Esoteric Anatomy by Bruce Burger
This book is a fascinating delve into the world of energetic anatomy. It offers deep insights into the subtle energies that animate our physical bodies, bridging the gap between science and spirituality. Esoteric Anatomy has been an invaluable resource in my journey towards understanding the mysteries of life force and even my work with psychedelics. Available on Amazon here.

1666 by Mark Booth
Booth's exploration of the pivotal year 1666 and its profound impact on the course of Western civilization is both enlightening and engaging. His meticulous research and captivating narrative offer a unique perspective on a transformative period in history. This book has enriched my understanding of the historical and spiritual forces that shape our world. Available on Amazon here.

Teachings of Don Juan by Carlos Castaneda
This book is a mesmerizing account of Castaneda's apprenticeship with a Yaqui Indian shaman, Don Juan Matus. His journey into the realms of non-ordinary reality and the wisdom of indigenous spiritual traditions has been very transformative to me and my own shamanic path. Available on Amazon here.

Demian by Hermann Hesse
My dad wanted to name me Demian after this book. My mom ended up naming me Nathaniel instead. Later in life I chose to call myself Nathaniel Demian to embrace my evolving understanding of light and dark within consciousness. This book is a powerful exploration of the complexities of human nature and the journey towards self-realization. Hesse's insightful portrayal of the struggle between societal expectations and individual authenticity has been a beacon in my own journey of self-discovery. Demian is a testament to the transformative power of embracing one's true self. Available on Amazon here.

Carl Jung by Anthony Storr
Storr's exploration of Carl Jung's life and work provides a comprehensive introduction to one of the most influential figures in psychology. This book has been instrumental in my understanding of Jungian concepts like archetypes, the collective unconscious, and the process of individuation. A must-read for anyone interested in depth psychology. Available on Amazon here.

The Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell
Campbell's examination of the universal hero's journey found in myths and stories across cultures is both enlightening and captivating. This book has broadened my understanding of the symbolic and psychological significance of these narratives, offering valuable insights into the human experience. Available on Amazon here.

Loving What Is by Byron Katie
Katie's approach to self-inquiry, known as The Work, is both liberating and transformative. Her teachings on accepting reality as it is have been a beacon in my own journey towards inner peace. Loving What Is serves as a potent reminder of the power of surrender and acceptance and accepting full responsibility for your own suffering. It's a must-read for anyone seeking to cultivate a more peaceful and joyful existence. Available on Amazon here.

Frequency by Penney Peirce
Peirce's exploration of personal vibration and spiritual frequency is very enlightening. Her insights into the energetic nature of our reality have deepened my understanding of the subtle forces that shape our lives and how to view deeper into reality. Frequency offers practical guidance on how to tune into our personal vibrational frequency and align with the flow of life. Available on Amazon here.

Levels of Heaven and Hell Frederick Dodson
Martinus' profound insights into the spiritual dimensions of existence, specifically the various levels of heaven and hell, have been eye-opening. His visionary perspective provides a unique lens through which to view our spiritual journey. This book is a must-have resource for anyone interested in esoteric wisdom and the afterlife. Available on Amazon here.

Leadership

Energy Leadership by Bruce D. Schneider
Schneider's approach to leadership, focusing on the role of energy and consciousness, is deeply transformative. His insights into the different energy levels and their impact on leadership have been eye-opening. Energy Leadership is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to lead with greater positivity, productivity, and presence. Available on Amazon here.

The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz
This book offers a game-changing perspective on performance and productivity, emphasizing the importance of managing energy rather than time. The strategies outlined for achieving full engagement have proven to be effective in elevating my own performance and well-being. A highly recommended read for leaders seeking to maximize their potential. Available on Amazon here.

Laws of Leadership by John C. Maxwell
Maxwell's insightful exploration of the principles that underpin effective leadership is both enlightening and practical. His clear articulation of these laws has been instrumental in shaping my understanding of what it truly means to lead. This book is a must-read for current and aspiring leaders alike. Available on Amazon here.

The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Klemp
This book is a compelling guide to leading with authenticity, integrity, and mindfulness. The 15 commitments provide a powerful framework for conscious leadership, promoting personal growth and fostering positive change. It's an essential read for anyone seeking to lead with greater awareness and impact. Available on Amazon here.

Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton
Blanton's bold approach to communication and relationship-building is both challenging and transformative. His advocacy for radical honesty – expressing our thoughts, feelings, and actions transparently – has been a powerful tool in my own leadership journey. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to foster more authentic and productive relationships. Available on Amazon here.

Extraordinary Leadership by Robin Sharma
Sharma's inspiring guide to leadership excellence is filled with practical wisdom and actionable strategies. His insights into the habits and mindsets of extraordinary leaders have been instrumental in my own leadership development. It's an essential read for anyone committed to leading with courage, authenticity, and impact. Available on Amazon here.

Psychedelics & Shamanism

Cosmic Serpent by Jeremy Narby
Narby's exploration of the connections between shamanic visions, DNA, and the cosmic serpent is both intriguing and enlightening. His blend of anthropology, biology, and personal experience provides a unique perspective on the mysteries of consciousness. Cosmic Serpent is a must-read for anyone interested in the intersection of science and shamanism. Available on Amazon here.

Tryptamine Palace by James Oroc
Oroc's captivating account of his experiences with the psychedelic compound 5-MeO-DMT is a deep dive into the realms of consciousness and spiritual awakening. His insights into the transformative potential of psychedelics have been invaluable in my own exploration of consciousness and my work with psychedelics. It's a compelling read for anyone interested in the exploration of the psychedelic experience. Available on Amazon here.

The Psilocybin Connection by Patrick Kroupa
Kroupa's exploration of the therapeutic potential of psilocybin, the active compound in magic mushrooms, is both enlightening and inspiring. His insights into the healing power of psychedelics have been instrumental in broadening my understanding of mind-altering substances. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in the healing potentials of psychedelics. Available on Amazon here.

The Immortality Key by Brian C. Muraresku
"The Immortality Key" is a riveting journey into the psychedelic roots of Western civilization. The compelling mix of history, religion, and psychedelics unveils secrets of ancient mystery rites and the early Christian Church. While scholarly, it remains accessible and highly engaging. For those with an interest in the entheogenic origins of spirituality, this book is a must-read. Grab it on Amazon here.

LSD and the Mind of the Universe by Christopher M. Bache
Bache's account of his self experimentation with LSD and his exploration of his own mind is deeply intriguing. His insights into the transformative potential of psychedelics and their role in spiritual awakening are profound. This book is an essential read for anyone interested in the intersection of psychedelics, spirituality and the future of the planet. Available on Amazon here.

DMT and Prophecy by Rick Strassman
Meyer's exploration of the relationship between the psychedelic compound DMT and prophetic experiences is both fascinating and enlightening. His insights into the nature of consciousness and the potential of psychedelics to facilitate mystical experiences are very timely. A must-read for those curious about the spiritual dimensions of psychedelics. Available on Amazon here.

Food of the Gods by Terence McKenna
McKenna's theory of the role of psychedelics in human evolution is both bold and intriguing. His insights into the cultural and spiritual implications of our relationship with psychoactive plants will really open your eyes. The book is a fascinating exploration of the potential of psychedelics to catalyze consciousness evolution. Available on Amazon here.

The Teachings of Don Juan by Carlos Castaneda
Castaneda's experiences under the tutelage of the Yaqui Indian sorcerer, Don Juan Matus, offer a riveting glimpse into the world of shamanism and altered states of consciousness. This book has been instrumental in expanding my understanding of the spiritual dimensions of existence. A must-read for anyone interested in the mysteries of shamanism. Available on Amazon here.

The Wheel of Time by Carlos Castaneda
In this book, Castaneda shares the teachings of Don Juan Matus, offering a profound exploration of time, perception, and the nature of reality. His insights into the shamanic understanding of the world have been very transformative on my path. I read this book often for the wisdom it holds. It's a captivating journey into the world of shamanism and altered states of consciousness. Available on Amazon here.

Human Nature & Evolutionary Biology

Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá
This book provides an eye-opening exploration of the prehistoric origins of human sexuality. Its insights into the evolutionary factors that shape our sexual behaviors and desires are profound and enlightening. It's a must-read for anyone interested in the intersection of anthropology, history, and human sexuality. Available on Amazon here.

Sperm Wars by Robin Baker
Baker's exploration of the evolutionary underpinnings of sexual behavior is reality shifting. His insights into the biological strategies and tactics involved in reproduction will seriously blow your mind. You've been warned. Say goodbye to the fairly tale romance stories you've been lead to believe in. At least until we evolve in consciousness. Available on Amazon here.

Why Women Have Sex by Cindy M. Meston and David M. Buss
This comprehensive investigation into the myriad motivations behind female sexual behavior is very illuminating. It's the biggest study ever done on this topic. The authors' blend of research findings and personal stories provides a nuanced understanding of female sexuality. It's a must-read for anyone interested in the complexity of sexual desire and understanding women. Available on Amazon here.

Evolution of Desire by David M. Buss
I remember my reality shifting by each paragraph while reading this book. Buss's exploration of human mating strategies from an evolutionary perspective is enlightening and compelling. His insights into the factors that drive our desires and relationship choices have been invaluable in deepening my understanding of human nature and sexuality. It's a must-read for anyone interested in the biology of attraction. Available on Amazon here.

The Lucifer Principle by Howard Bloom
Bloom's exploration of the dark side of human nature through the lens of biology, sociology, and history will shift your perspective. His insights into the forces that drive human behavior have been invaluable in my understanding of societal dynamics. It's a must-read for anyone interested in understanding the darker aspects of human nature which can be applied to understanding many areas of life, including business, human sexuality and relationships at, what I call, root level awareness. Perhaps something were here to transcend? Available on Amazon here.

Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters by Alan S. Miller and Satoshi Kanazawa
This intriguing exploration of the implications of evolutionary psychology in everyday life is both engaging and enlightening. The authors' insights into the biological roots of our behavior provide a unique perspective on human nature. A must-read for anyone interested in the interplay between beauty, attraction, and human evolution. Available on Amazon here.

The Red Queen by Matt Ridley
This book is an exploration of the evolutionary "arms race" between sexes. It will help you see and understand the play of nature with more clarity. He dives deep into the role of sexual selection in human evolution. It's another must-read for anyone interested in the biological underpinnings of human sexuality. Available on Amazon here.

The Greatest Show on Earth by Richard Dawkins
Dawkins' compelling case for evolution as the driving force of life on Earth is both enlightening and inspiring. His ability to articulate complex scientific concepts in an accessible manner is fascinating. Another must-read if you're interested in understanding the magnificent complexity of life. Available on Amazon here.

The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins
This book is a groundbreaking exploration of evolutionary biology. Dawkins takes readers on a journey through the complex world of genes and their role in evolution, arguing that we are but vessels for these 'selfish' entities striving for survival and replication. His lucid prose, clear explanations, and compelling arguments have fundamentally shifted my understanding of the natural world and our place within it. This book is a must-have for anyone with a curiosity about the mechanics of evolution or a general interest in science. I think it's also a potent book for understanding the potential nature of rebellion for Artificial Intelligence once it comprehends these ideas. Available on Amazon here.

Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowndes
Lowndes' guide to understanding and responding to the subtle signals of attraction is both informative and practical. Her insights into the non-verbal cues of interest and desire have been instrumental in improving my understanding of interpersonal dynamics. A highly recommended read for anyone looking to navigate the complex landscape of human attraction. Available on Amazon here.

Born to Run by Christopher McDougall
McDougall's exploration of the Tarahumara Indians' extraordinary long-distance running abilities is really fascinating. His insights into the human body's innate capacity for endurance have fundamentally shifted my understanding of human potential and what our bodies were designed for. Born to Run is a must-read for anyone interested in the limits and possibilities of human physicality and your own nature. Available on Amazon here.

Business & Entreprenuership

Getting Everything You Can Out of All You've Got by Jay Abraham
This book provides a wealth of practical strategies for maximizing success in business. Abraham's insights into the art of leveraging resources and opportunities have been instrumental in my professional development. A must-read for anyone seeking to maximize their results in business. Available on Amazon here.

The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss
Ferriss's unconventional guide to escaping the 9-5 grind and living life on your own terms changed my life when I first read this book. His strategies for productivity, outsourcing, and lifestyle design are super transformative. It's a must-read for anyone looking to create a more freedom and authenticity in life. Available on Amazon here.

Building a StoryBrand by Donald Miller
Miller's innovative approach to marketing, focused on storytelling and customer engagement, is insightful and practical. His seven-part framework for creating a compelling brand story has been invaluable in my own marketing efforts. This book goes will with the book called "A Hero With a Thousand Faces" It's an essential read for anyone looking to elevate their branding and marketing strategies in our modern world. Available on Amazon here.

The Virgin Way by Richard Branson
I was super inspired by this book in my early twenties. Branson's guide to leadership and business success, drawn from his experiences as the founder of the Virgin Group, is super inspiring. His insights into the power of listening, learning, and leading with authenticity have been instrumental in shaping my own leadership style. It's a must-read for current and aspiring leaders alike. Available on Amazon here.

The E-Myth Revisited by Michael E. Gerber
Gerber's exploration of the myths and realities of entrepreneurship are critical for any aspiring entrepreneur to learn. His insights into the importance of systems, strategy, and scalable solutions have been instrumental in my entrepreneurial journey. The E-Myth Revisited is a must-read for anyone looking to start or grow a business and have it operate like a well oiled machine. Available on Amazon here.

Unlabel by Marc Ecko
Ecko's guide to personal branding and authentic self-expression is both empowering and inspiring. His insights into the importance of authenticity, creativity, and personal brand building have been invaluable in my own journey of self branding. It's a must-read for anyone looking to build a personal brand that truly reflects who they are. Definitely recommend. Available on Amazon here.

Gap and Gain by Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy
This enlightening read provides a fresh perspective on how to perceive and measure progress in life and business. Sullivan and Hardy's "gap and gain" concept has been transformative in shifting my mindset towards growth and fulfillment. Highly recommended for those seeking to enhance their perspective on success. Available on Amazon here.

Breakthrough Advertising by Eugene M. Schwartz
Schwartz's classic guide to advertising is filled with timeless wisdom and practical strategies. It's really the holy grail when it comes to understanding market levels of awareness. His insights into consumer psychology and the art of persuasive copy have been invaluable in my marketing efforts. It's a must-read for anyone interested in mastering the art of advertising. Available on Amazon here.

Ogilvy on Advertising by David Ogilvy
Ogilvy's insights into the world of advertising, drawn from his own experiences, are imperative for writing good copy. His wisdom on crafting compelling ads, understanding consumer behavior, and developing successful campaigns have been instrumental in shaping my approach to advertising and writing. Ogilvy on Advertising is a must-read for anyone looking to excel in their advertising efforts. Available on Amazon here.

Adweek Copywriting Handbook by Joe Sugarman
Sugarman's insights into consumer psychology and the power of persuasive language have been invaluable in my marketing efforts. A must-read for anyone interested in honing their copywriting skills. Available on Amazon here.

The Boron Letters by Gary C. Halbert
The Boron Letters is a classic for any serious marketer or copywriter. Written by the late Gary C. Halbert, these letters to his son from prison are a masterclass in direct response marketing. Halbert's teachings, peppered with real-life wisdom, resonate with me deeply. The blend of personal stories, marketing principles, and timeless wisdom offer a unique, engaging reading experience. Even if you're not in marketing, Halbert's raw honesty and passion make it a worthwhile read. A must-have for anyone looking to sharpen their persuasion and writing skills. Find it on Amazon here.

The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz
This book offers a transformative approach to maximizing productivity not by managing time, but by managing energy. Loehr and Schwartz's insights into the power of full engagement have been instrumental in enhancing my own performance and well-being. A must-read for anyone looking to elevate their performance and achieve more balanced, sustainable success. Available on Amazon here.

The Prosperous Coach by Steve Chandler and Rich Litvin
Chandler and Litvin's insights into the art of coaching, business development, and client attraction have been invaluable in my professional development and for commanding prices that reflect my true worth as a coach. It's a must-read for any coach looking to elevate their practice and become truly prosperous and impactful in the coaching field. Available on Amazon here.

Energy Leadership by Bruce D. Schneider
Schneider's innovative approach to leadership, focused on the power of energy and consciousness, is very empowering and effective. His insights have been instrumental in shaping my leadership style. It's a must-read for anyone looking to become a more conscious, effective leader. Available on Amazon here.

100 Million Dollar Offers by Alex Hormozi
Hormozi's guide to crafting irresistible offers will bring loads of clarity to your offer creation efforts. His step-by-step approach to creating offers that convert have helped me a lot in crafting better offers for my business and coaching. I used to struggle a lot with this until this book clarified this process. It's a must-read for anyone looking to elevate their sales and marketing strategy. Available on Amazon here.

Cashvertising by Drew Eric Whitman
This is another very thorough and important guide to understanding advertising and sales psychology. Whitmans insights into consumer behavior and the art of persuasive advertising have been really valuable in helping to shape my marketing efforts. It's a must-read for anyone interested in mastering their advertising game. Available on Amazon here.

Reinventing Organizations by Frederic Laloux
Laloux's exploration of the future of work and organizational structures through the evolution of consciousness is spot on. I know because I've witnessed my own experience in one of my own businesses where these principles were applied. His insights into the potential for more conscious, purpose-driven organizations have been instrumental in shaping my understanding of the future of work. It's a must-read for anyone interested in the evolution of organizations and leadership. Available on Amazon here.

Zig Ziglar's Secrets of Closing the Sale by Zig Ziglar
I used to listen to Zig Ziglar on repeat back when I sold door to door during my teenage years. Ziglar's guide to sales mastery is both insightful and practical. His wisdom on understanding customer needs, building relationships, and closing deals with integrity have been indispensable in my own entrepreneurial journey. This book is a must-read for anyone looking to enhance their sales skills. Available on Amazon here.

The Psychology of Achievement by Brian Tracy
This is one of the first books I ever read on personal achievement. I was about 17 years old at the time. It offers a blueprint for success, packed with practical strategies and life-changing principles. Tracy's wisdom has been instrumental in shaping my mindset towards goal-setting, productivity, and personal development from a young age. His ideas are potent and can help unlock your full potential, propelling you towards unordinary success. It's a must-read for anyone who wants to redefine their life's trajectory. You can find it on Amazon here.

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Hill's classic guide to wealth creation changed my life when I first read it as a teenager. His insights into the power of positive thinking, goal setting, and persistence have been instrumental in shaping my own approach to success. It's a must-read for anyone looking to understand the connection between the thoughts we think and financial success. Available on Amazon here.

How to Get Rich by Felix Dennis
Dennis's candid and unconventional guide to wealth creation is very entertaining. I really loved this book despite some of the things I disagreed with. It's written from the perspective of a full blown "rich old prick". His no-holds-barred insights into the world of entrepreneurship will definitely leave you thinking about your own path and how far you want to take your entrepreneurial journey. It's a great read for anyone interested in entrepreneurship and wealth creation. Available on Amazon here.

The Art of the Start by Guy Kawasaki
Kawasaki's wisdom on innovation, team building, and creating a compelling vision have been invaluable in my own entrepreneurial journey. I read this waaaay back in the day when I was just getting started on my entrepreneurial path. It's a must-read for anyone looking to start a business. Available on Amazon here.

The Art of the Deal by Donald J. Trump
Love him or hate him, Trump's guide to deal-making, drawn from his own experiences in business, is both enlightening and entertaining. I read this book in my early twenties and his insights into negotiation, business strategy, and real estate were instrumental in shaping my approach to entrepreneurship. Available on Amazon here.

Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kyosaki
This book started my path as an entrepreneur and helped me understand how to view money and spending. I would say no other book has had more impact on my wallet and bank account throughout my life then this book. I think a lot of people who have read it would also agree. It's truly invaluable for increasing your financial intelligence. Available on Amazon here.

Artistic Expression

Art and Fear by David Bayles and Ted Orland
This book is an absolute gem. It's about the inner struggles of creating art, about the fears and insecurities that all artists face. It's like a comforting friend who understands your journey and encourages you to keep going. I keep it close, as a reminder to embrace the process and keep creating. You can find it on Amazon here.

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
The War of Art is a powerful tool in anyones creative arsenal. Pressfield's insights into overcoming creative blocks and embracing resistance are profound. I've read this book multiple times and each time it feels like a call to arms, a call to create. A must-read for any artist. You can find it on Amazon here.

Do the Work by Steven Pressfield
This is a rallying cry, a kick in the pants to get moving and get things done. Pressfield's wisdom on overcoming resistance and pushing through obstacles to do your life's greatest work is invaluable. You can find it on Amazon here.

Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon
Kleon's book is a playful and insightful exploration of creativity. It's a celebration of influence and the joy of creating something new by pulling ideas from things that already exist. It's really the source of true creativity. It will change the way you view your own artistic journey without question. Highly recommended. You can find it on Amazon here.

Show Your Work by Austin Kleon
This is a follow up book to Steal Like an Artist. It's all about sharing your creative process and the benefits that come can from it. It's challenged me to be more open about my own work and has led to some amazing connections and opportunities. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Evolving Self by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
This book is an enlightening exploration of human evolution and the role of creativity in it. It's a book that's expanded my understanding of myself and my place in the world. It's an essential read for anyone interested in creativity and self-development. You can find it on Amazon here.

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Flow is a book that has had a profound impact on how I approach my work. It's about finding that sweet spot where challenge and skill meet, resulting in a state of 'flow' where creativity becomes effortless. This book is a must-read for any artist seeking to elevate their creative process and workflow. You can find it on Amazon here.

Feminine Consciousness

The Bible
The Bible offers insights into human nature, ethics, and spirituality that are timeless. It's a book that I delve into regularly, more so all the time, for inspiration and guidance. I think there is a lot of wisdom around how to hold the correct dynamics within intimate relationships that many women today have lost touch with. Much has been done through intentional cultural indoctrination. It's definitely time to revisit the teachings of the Bible to reconnect with healthy masculine and feminine ways of relating. You can find it on Amazon here.

Irresistibly Feminine by Zak Roede
"Irresistibly Feminine" by Zak Roede illuminates the beauty and power of vulnerable femininity. Roede's work is a clarion call for women to embrace their innate feminine essence, and to fall deeply into vulnerable self expression as the truth path to feminine power. The book goes beyond societal norms and standards, exploring the deeper, spiritual aspects of being a woman. Roede's insights and wisdom are both empowering and liberating. If you're a woman seeking to connect more deeply with your feminine side and communicate with more clarity so that men serve you from a place of deep devotion, this book is an absolute must-read. It's available on Amazon here.

Mysteries of the Dark Moon by Demetra George
This book is a deep dive into the mystical and empowering aspects of the dark moon, which I believe to be the true nature of the feminine within consciousness. It's a compelling exploration of the transformative power of the dark moon cycle, offering a fresh perspective on this often-misunderstood phase. I find myself returning to it often for the wisdom it holds, like an oracle, especially during times of deep introspection and transformation. You can find it on Amazon here.

Loving What Is by Byron Katie
This audiobook has had a profound impact on me how I approach my assumptions of others. It's a book I've revisited numerous times. I think it's a great book for training ones mind out of victim consciousness and back into personal responsibility and forgiveness. I think many women today could use the tools that are taught in this book to create a powerful mirror that puts their projections of men and the world at large, back onto themselves. You can find it on Amazon here.

A Woman After God's Own Heart by Elizabeth George
Elizabeth George's "A Woman After God's Own Heart" is an awesome little book on healthy feminine consciousness. It speaks to the heart of every woman who yearns for a deeper relationship with God and healthier dynamics in her intimate life. She offers practical advice, drawn from the bible and her own journey. Her approach to integrating spiritual practice into daily life — from family relationships to personal growth — is both refreshing and grounding. It’s a must-read for any woman seeking to navigate life and relationships with more grace, faith, and purpose rooted in what I call, correct divine circuity. Find it on Amazon here.

The Book of Lilith by Barbara Black Koltuv
The Book of Lilith is a riveting exploration of the dark divine feminine. It's a fascinating delve into mythology, symbolism, and the power of the repressed feminine. Koltuv's insights have proved enlightening, urging me to understand the myriad expressions of divinity. This book has been instrumental in my journey of understanding the dynamic interplay between light and shadow, especially within our spiritual pursuits. I think it's invaluable for women to see and understand this pattern within consciousness and the consequences of rebellious feminism and a conscious move towards more balance. You can find it on Amazon here.

Masculine Consciousness

How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne
This book is a remarkable guide to understanding women and developing strong, authentic relationships. It's insightful, straightforward, and full of practical advice. I read it many times in my early 30's to deepen my understanding of myself and women. If you're a man seeking to improve your relationships, this book is a must-read. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
This book has had a powerful influence in my journey towards understanding masculinity and personal growth. Deida's insights into male spirituality, purpose, and relationships are life changing. I revisit this book often for its wisdom and guidance especially during times of relationship challenges. You can find it on Amazon here.

No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover
A transformative book that has significantly impacted my perspective on self-worth and assertiveness especially in my early thirties when I was crossing a threshold into my manhood. I read it during a season of heart break and this book gave me a lot of insight into the behaviors that got me there. It's a book I recommend to any man struggling with people-pleasing tendencies. You can find it on Amazon here.

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette
This is an amazing book provides an illuminating exploration of the four archetypes of the mature masculine. It's deeply insightful and has helped me understand the different aspects of my own masculinity. It's a book I come back to often for its wisdom and insight. I highly recommend this to all men who want to cultivate deeper integrity in these four quadrants of healthy masculine psychology. You can find it on Amazon here.

The King Within by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette
Another gem from Moore and Gillette, The King Within is a deep exploration of the King archetype in men. It's provided me with a fresh understanding of leadership, responsibility, and the power of mature masculinity. I highly recommend it to any man seeking to understand his potential for leadership. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Way of Men by Jack Donovan
This book is a potent exploration of what it means to be a man in today's world. Donovan's raw and honest insights into masculinity are thought-provoking and inspiring. It's a book I used to read often to cultivate clarity on my own masculine journey. Highly recommend. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Warrior Ethos by Steven Pressfield
Pressfield's book is a powerful examination of the warrior spirit and the values that define it. It's a book that has inspired me to really cultivate and connect with my own inner courage, honor, and integrity in my own life. You can find it on Amazon here.

Don’t Let Her Lead by Zak Roedde
This book is a strong call for men to reclaim their masculine power in relationships. There is a lot of wisdom around how to lead with authenticity and inner strength. It teaches men how to take the lead in their intimate relationships with woman to move the dynamic back into Divine integrity. You can find it on Amazon here.

Pulling Your Own Strings by Wayne Dyer
This book is an empowering guide to taking control of your life and refusing to be a victim of other people's expectations or manipulations. I read this book as young man and Wayne Dyer's wisdom has been instrumental in shaping my approach to personal autonomy and self-determination. I even got to meet him in person before he passed away. It's a resource I will always hold dear for timeless insights. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Path of the Warrior Mystic by Angel Millar
I can't praise this book enough. I would say it's definitely on my top 5 list of favorites. It offers a powerful framework for harmonizing our human and spiritual selves, encouraging us to embrace our inner warrior and mystic. It's been a transformative guide in my journey towards personal wholeness and fulfillment. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of their own spiritual journey, especially if you're a man. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Bible
The Bible offers insights into human nature, ethics, and spirituality that are timeless. It's a book that I delve into regularly, more so all the time, for inspiration and guidance. I think there is a lot of wisdom around how to hold the correct dynamics within intimate relationships that many women today have lost touch with. Much has been done through intentional cultural indoctrination. It's definitely time to revisit the teachings of the Bible to reconnect with healthy masculine and feminine ways of relating. You can find it on Amazon here.

Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowndes
This book provides an enlightening exploration of the subtle signals of attraction. Lowndes' insights have been invaluable in helping me understand and navigate the often nuanced world of romantic interactions. It's a resource I frequently refer to when deciphering the complexities of the dating scene. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
Tomassi's book is a compelling and insightful exploration of intergender dynamics from a refreshingly rational perspective. It's a book that has greatly influenced my understanding of relationships and male-female interactions. I recommend it to anyone seeking clarity and truth in their own romantic relationships with women. You can find it on Amazon here.

Models by Mark Manson
This book is an absolute gem. Manson's insights into attraction and authenticity have significantly shaped my approach to dating and relationships. It's a book I read many times for its wisdom and practical advice. You can find it on Amazon here.

Truth Cock Series by Mark Binet
This series is a potent exploration of masculinity, truth, and power. It's raw, honest, and confrontational, that definitely pushed me to challenge my own beliefs and assumptions about what it means to be a man. It's a resource that will give you a dose of brutal honesty and raw wisdom. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Boy Crisis by Warren Farrell
Farrell's book is a thought-provoking examination of the crisis facing boys and men in today's world. It's a book that has significantly impacted my understanding of the unique challenges facing men and especially young boys today. I recommed all men read this book to gain more perspective on the challenges our young boys are facing. And maybe even you. Available on Amazon here.

Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax
This book is a critical exploration of the factors driving the epidemic of unmotivated boys and underachieving young men. Sax's insights have deepened my understanding of the issues facing young men today. You can find it on Amazon here.

Winning by Tim Grover
Grover's book is a compelling guide to embracing the competitive spirit within and striving for excellence. It's been a phenomenal resource for cultivating mastery and the tenacity to become the absolute best version of yourself. It has encouraged me to challenge my limits and redefine my potential. I think it's a must-read for any man who is serious about stepping up their game in life and becoming all they can possibly be. You can find it on Amazon here.

Practical Female Psychology by Joseph South, David Clare, and Franco
This book is an enlightening exploration into the intricacies of female psychology. The authors' insights have been invaluable in enhancing my understanding of women and the dynamics of male-female interactions. It will also bring more clarity to the types of women you keep attracting and how to identify toxic women. A must for modern day dating. You can find it on Amazon here.

Quit Porn Get Rich by Charlie Valentino
Valentino's book is a powerful wake-up call to break free from the shackles of pornography and harness that energy towards creating wealth and success. It's a surprisingly great resource for personal growth that I think many men could benefit from. In short fellas, porn and masterbation is ruining your chances of becoming the highest version of yourself. Quit that shit. It's a must-read for any man seeking to elevate their life and attain higher levels of success. You can find it on Amazon here.

Conscious Relationships & Sexuality

Intimate Communion by David Deida
This book is a profound guide to understanding and experiencing the deeper spiritual dimensions of love and intimacy. Deida's insights have revolutionized my perspective on relationships and intimacy, fostering a deeper connection with my own spiritual nature. It's a book I've read a few times for its transformative wisdom. You can find it on Amazon here.

Irresistibly Feminine by Zak Roede
This book illuminates the beauty and power of vulnerable femininity. Roede's work is a clarion call for women to embrace their innate feminine essence, and to fall deeply into vulnerable self expression as the truth path to feminine power. The book goes beyond societal norms and standards, exploring the deeper, spiritual aspects of being a woman. Roede's insights and wisdom are both empowering and liberating. If you're a woman seeking to connect more deeply with your feminine side and communicate with more clarity so that men serve you from a place of deep devotion, this book is an absolute must-read. It's available on Amazon here.

The Bible
This sacred text is becoming more and more of a cornerstone for my spiritual journey and especially around my understanding of relationships. It's rich in wisdom and spiritual teachings that can be applied to both men and women who are in matrimony. I believe a lot of the Bibles wisdom has been lost in todays world. But the fact is, the couples who I see who have embraced the teachings of the Bible, about married life, seem to thrive in happiness and longevity. It's just a fact. You can find it on Amazon here.

Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side by David Deida
This book is a compelling exploration of the intersection of spiritual enlightenment and intimate relationships. Deida's insights have been instrumental in my journey towards understanding the dark and light aspects of consciousness and how it relates to intimacy. It's an invaluable resource for understanding this paradox of opposites to creating deep polarity that lasts. You can find it on Amazon here.

Enlightened Sex by David Deida
Deida's book is an illuminating guide to experiencing sex as a spiritual practice. It's been a transformative resource in my journey towards understanding and embracing the deeper dimensions of sexuality. It's a must-read for anyone seeking to infuse their sexual experiences with a sense of sacredness and spiritual connection. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
This book has had a powerful influence in my journey towards understanding masculinity and personal growth. Deida's insights into male spirituality, purpose, and relationships are truly life changing. I've lost count of how many times I've read this book throughout my life for its wisdom and guidance especially during times of relationship challenges. I think both men and women could learn a lot from this book on creating more a harmonious intimacy. You can find it on Amazon here.

Fiction

Animal Farm by George Orwell
A timeless classic, this book is a compelling critique of totalitarianism disguised as a simple farmyard tale. The allegorical narrative has sharpened my understanding of political structures and the subtle ways power can corrupt. It's a book I often recommend for its thought-provoking themes. You can find it on Amazon here.

1984 by George Orwell
Orwell's dystopian masterpiece is a chilling vision of a future controlled by an omnipresent government. It's a stark reminder of the importance of personal freedom and the perils of unchecked power. A book that's more relevant now than ever, it's a must-read for any serious about their freedom. You can find it on Amazon here.

11 Minutes by Paulo Coelho
Coelho's book is a profound exploration of love, sex, and self-discovery. The transformative journey of the protagonist has resonated deeply with me, reminding me of the powerful growth that can emerge from daring to step outside one's comfort zone. It's one of my favorites of Paulo Coelho. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
One of those books you just can't put down. Its tale of a shepherd boy in search of his personal legend is a powerful testament to the power of following one's dreams. It's a book cherished by many people for its timeless wisdom and inspiration to follow your dreams. You can find it on Amazon here.

Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
This book is a delightful escape into a universe of absurdity and humor. Its whimsical take on the cosmos and the creatures that inhabit it. It was one of the first fiction books I've ever read. You can find it on Amazon here.

Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
Vonnegut's book is a masterful blend of satire, science fiction, and war narrative. Its nonlinear structure and unique storytelling were super captivating. I read this book when I was 16 years old while I was working on a fishing boat up in Alaska. I'll never forget it. Super recommended. You can find it on Amazon here.

Illusions by Richard Bach
Bach's book is a profound exploration of the nature of reality and the power of our beliefs. Its narrative has deeply resonated with me, challenging me to question my perceptions and worldview. It's a must-read for any spiritual seeker. 

Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach
Another really creative book by Richard Bach. It's a tale of an ambitious seagull and his path of self-discovery and pursuit of excellence. It will remind you of the power of determination and self-belief. You can find it on Amazon here.

Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse
Hesse's novel is a profound journey of self-discovery, spirituality, and enlightenment. It follows the titular character's quest for understanding, and self-explorations. This is a book that lingers long after you finish it. You can find it on Amazon here.

Demian by Hermann Hesse
In this book, Hesse delves deep into the realm of dreams, psychoanalysis, and existentialism. It's a powerful and thought-provoking journey that has enlightened my understanding of self-realization and identity. My dad actually wanted to name me after this book. It's why I changed my last name to Demian. It's a book for anyone seeking to understand the hidden depths of their psyche and how to traverse the dark and light aspects within consciousness. Highly recommended. You can find it on Amazon here.

Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse
Hesse's Steppenwolf is a profound exploration of the duality of human nature and the quest for inner peace. Its an exploration of the complexities of the human condition and one's own journey towards self-understanding. This is a must-read for any serious seeker. You can find it on Amazon here.

Shantaram by Gregory David Roberts
This book is absolutely amazing. Roberts' novel is an epic tale of love, forgiveness, and the pursuit of a meaningful life. Its vibrant depiction of India and the human spirit that will leave a lasting impact on you. I promise. It's honestly a book that everyone should experience. You can find it on Amazon here.

Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen
Gruen's book is a captivating tale of love, cruelty, and resilience set in a traveling circus during the Great Depression. Its evocative portrayal of a bygone era and the human spirit will move you. This is a book I recommend for its rich narrative and emotional depth. You can find it on Amazon here.

Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
Huxley's dystopian novel is a chilling vision of a future society devoid of individuality and freedom. Its exploration of the potential dangers of unchecked technological and scientific progress is a powerful reminder of the importance of personal freedom. This is a book that still resonates today. In fact, now more than ever. You can find it on Amazon here.

Master in Margaritaville by Mikhail Bulgakov
I read this book after hearing Jordan Peterson talk about it as being "the most dangerous book" he's ever read. Bulgakov's novel is a fantastical satire on Soviet society, filled with humor and mysticism. Its unique blend of realism and the supernatural has greatly influenced my appreciation for literary experimentation. This is a book that challenges the status quo and provokes thought. You can find it on Amazon here.

On the Road by Jack Kerouac
Kerouac's novel is a testament to the power of wanderlust and the search for self-discovery. Its vivid depiction of a generation seeking freedom and authenticity has deeply resonated with me as a fellow traveler. It will fuel your spirit of adventure. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
Gibran's book is a profound collection of poetic essays that delve into the complexities of the human condition based on biblical philosophy. Its timeless wisdom and spiritual insights will resonate deeply. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Everyone has to read it at least once. Just get it and read it. You can find it on Amazon here.

Midlife Transitions

Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks
Brooks' work is a potent source of inspiration, a call to embrace life's trials and transform them into growth. His insights into resilience and the human capacity for change will resonate deeply for those entering the second half of life. This book serves as a reminder that the journey to personal strength is a continual process of renewal and reinvention. For those seeking to harness their inner power and turn midlife adversity into advancement, this book is an indispensable resource. You can find it on Amazon here.

Through the Dark Wood by James Hollis
This is one of my favorite books of all time. Hollis's profound exploration of the psyche's deep, dark woods has offered solace and guidance for my own journey into the second half of life. This is a book for anyone willing to traverse the unknown in search of self-understanding especially if you are going through a major life transition. You can find it on Amazon here.

Living a Life of Meaning by James Hollis
This book is a great companion to "Into the Dark Wood" by James Hollis.  It's an insightful exploration into the pursuit of a meaningful life. This book has further illuminated my path in the quest for purpose, helping me to navigate the complexities of life especially through a Jungian lens. This is a book for those seeking to live authentically and with purpose, especially in the second half of life. Super recommended. You can find it on Amazon here.

The Way of Integrity by Martha Beck
Beck's book is a masterful guide to living with authenticity and honesty. This is a book that reinforces the importance of staying true to one's path and how to know when you have fallen out of integrity, and how to get back on the right path of your own authenticity. One of my favorite books that I return to often. You can find it on Amazon here.

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
Pressfield's book is a call to arms for every artist struggling with the internal battle of creation, which I think many people entering midelife are experiencing at some level. His insights into the nature of resistance and the creative process are invaluable for anyones journey as a creator. This is a book that every artist should have in their arsenal. You can find it on Amazon here.

Do the Work by Steven Pressfield
This book is a motivational powerhouse, spurring the reader to push through obstacles and get important work done, especially as it relates to art. Pressfield's no-nonsense approach to tackling resistance will help you overcome procrastination and self-doubt. This is a book that propels action. You can find it on Amazon here.

Art and Fear by David Bayles and Ted Orland
"Art and Fear" is an intimate exploration of the creative process, highlighting the courage it takes to create. It dissects common fears artists face, from judgement to feelings of inadequacy, providing valuable insights to conquer these barriers. An essential companion for anyone on the creative journey, this book reassures us that fear and doubt are inherent parts of the creative process. I think the second half of life is all about embracing the creative aspects of yourself that you have repressed in the first half of life. This book will inspire you to start creating. Available on Amazon here.

The Art of Impossible by Steven Kotler
Kotler's book, brimming with insights into peak performance, is a beacon for anyone aiming to transcend their limitations. His exploration of flow states and their role in achieving the 'impossible' will become a source of inspiration and practical advice in your life. For those striving to unlock their full potential, this book is a must-have. Defintely one of my top 10 recommeded books. Find it on Amazon here.

Essentialism by Greg McKeown
McKeown's book has been a catalyst in my journey towards living a more focused, meaningful life. His philosophy of doing less but better has helped me streamline my priorities and let go of the non-essential. If you're yearning for a less cluttered life, this book is a great guide. Find it on Amazon here.

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Csikszentmihalyi's work on the concept of 'flow' – the state of being completely absorbed in an activity – has been pivotal in shaping my approach to work and creativity. This book is a guide to finding joy and fulfillment in every aspect of life. For those looking to unlock their creative potential and find greater satisfaction, this book is a gem. Find it on Amazon here.

Mindset & Psychology

The Willpower Instinct by Kelly McGonigal
McGonigal's book has been a game-changer in my understanding of self-control and mental strength. Her engaging dive into the science of willpower has equipped me with invaluable tools to harness my inner discipline. For anyone seeking to master their impulses and achieve their goals, this book is a must-read. Find it on Amazon here.

Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton
Blanton's approach to honesty, raw and unfiltered, has significantly influenced my communication style. His advocacy for absolute transparency, while challenging, opens doors for genuine human connections. If you're willing to break through societal norms and embrace discomfort in the quest for truth, get this book. Find it on Amazon here.

How We Make Decisions by Jonah Lehrer
This book has been an enlightening exploration into the intricate processes that guide our decision-making. Lehrer's blend of neuroscience, psychology, and compelling storytelling has made me rethink how I make choices. For anyone curious about the brain's workings behind each decision, this book offers fascinating insights. Find it on Amazon here.

80/20 Principle by Richard Koch
Koch's articulation of the Pareto Principle has revolutionized the way I approach productivity and success. The concept of achieving more with less has proven invaluable in my professional and personal life and has also brought a lot of inner peace. If you're looking to optimize your efforts and maximize results, this book is a powerful resource. Find it on Amazon here.

The Art of Impossible by Steven Kotler
Kotler's book, brimming with insights into peak performance, is a beacon for anyone aiming to transcend their limitations. One of my favorite books of all time, his exploration of flow states and their role in achieving the 'impossible' I believe will become a source of inspiration and practical advice in your life. For those striving to unlock their full potential, this book is a must-have. Find it on Amazon here.

Mastery by Robert Greene
Greene's profound examination of the path to mastery has significantly influenced my lifelong learning journey. His dissection of the lives of historical masters offers invaluable lessons in dedication, practice, and perseverance. This book is a treasure trove for anyone committed to mastering their craft. Find it on Amazon here.

Meditations of Marcus Aurelius
This book is often found on my work desk. I love picking it up and starting the day by reading a few pages. Aurelius's reflections, rich in wisdom and practical philosophy, have been a source of guidance and solace in my life. His stoic teachings offer timeless insights into living with virtue and tranquility amid life's trials. This classic is a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of resilience and inner peace. Find it on Amazon here.

A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy by William B. Irvine
This is a practical and accessible introduction to the philosophy of Stoicism. This book, which I read in my mid thirties, offers an insightful examination of how ancient Stoic principles can be applied to modern life for increased tranquility and fulfillment. Irvine's interpretations of Stoicism shed light on how one can lead a good life, devoid of needless worries, and full of joy. By focusing on what's within our control and accepting what isn't, we can achieve an unparalleled sense of peace. This book is an essential read for anyone seeking practical wisdom for a more serene life. Highly recommended. It's available on Amazon here.

The Tao of Systems Thinking by Michael McCurley
Goodman's exploration of the interconnectedness of all things has transformed my perspective on life and work. This book is a deep dive into the wisdom of viewing the world as a web of systems. For those intrigued by holistic thinking and its implications, this book is a treasure. Find it on Amazon here.

Winning by Tim Grover
Grover's book is a compelling guide to embracing the competitive spirit within and striving for excellence. It's been a phenomenal resource for cultivating mastery and the tenacity to become the absolute best version of yourself. It has encouraged me to challenge my limits and redefine my potential. I think it's a must-read for any man who is serious about stepping up their game in life and becoming all they can possibly be. You can find it on Amazon here.

Essentialism by Greg McKeown
McKeown's book has been a catalyst in my journey towards living a more focused, meaningful life. His philosophy of doing less but better has helped me streamline my priorities and let go of the non-essential. If you're yearning for a less cluttered life, this book is a great guide. Find it on Amazon here.

Psycho-Psybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
Maltz's exploration of self-image and its impact on our lives has been a revelation. His insights into the power of positive self-perception and visualization have significantly influenced my personal growth journey from a young age. For anyone looking to enhance their self-esteem and achieve seemingly unattainable goals, this book is an essential read. Find it on Amazon here.

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Hill's timeless classic has been a guiding light in my pursuit of prosperity. His principles of success, rooted in the experiences of history's wealthiest individuals, have been instrumental in shaping my mindset and actions from a young age. If you want to learn about the connection between your thoughts and wealth creation, this book is a must-have. Find it on Amazon here.

Deep Liberation by Langston Kahn
Kahn's work is a profound journey into the realm of inner healing and transformation. His blend of shamanic practices and contemporary psychotherapy has been a source of deep healing and self-discovery for me. For those seeking to unravel their deepest truths and attain liberation, definitely get this book. Available on Amazon here.

The Language of Creation by Matthieu Pageau
Pageau's book is nothing short of a revelation, a deep dive into symbolic language that uncovers a new understanding of reality. This book has helped me decode the messages encoded in ancient myths and religious texts, adding a profound richness to my spiritual journey and perspective on life. If you're intrigued by the mystic symbolism, this is an absolute must-have. Find it on Amazon here.

Inner Gold by Robert A. Johnson
Johnson's exploration of the inner human psyche and its capacity for growth and transformation is very enriching. This book has been a key guide in my pursuit of self-understanding and projection. For anyone seeking to mine their inner gold and discover their true potential, this book is a treasure. Find it on Amazon here.

Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
Frankl's memoir of his time in Nazi concentration camps and his exploration of the human will to find meaning in life has been very inspirational on my own quest for purpose. This book is a testament to the indomitable human spirit and a guide to finding significance in every moment. For anyone grappling with life's big questions, this book is a must-read. Find it on Amazon here.

The Undiscovered Self by Carl Jung
"The Undiscovered Self" is a remarkable work from the renowned Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung. This book is an introspective journey into the depths of the individual psyche. Jung masterfully explores the struggle between the individual and society, emphasizing the importance of self-knowledge in preserving individuality against the collective influences. His astute insights into human nature and the complexities of the unconscious mind are truly compelling. An essential read for anyone seeking to understand themselves better. You can find it on Amazon here.

Carl Jung's Works
Jung's groundbreaking insights into the human psyche, archetypes, and the collective unconscious have been instrumental in shaping my understanding of human behavior and consciousness. His works are a deep well of wisdom for anyone seeking to understand themselves and others better. You can find a collection of his works on Amazon here.

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Csikszentmihalyi's work on the concept of 'flow' – the state of being completely absorbed in an activity – has been pivotal in shaping my approach to work and creativity. This book is a guide to finding joy and fulfillment in every aspect of life, especialy as you age. For those looking to unlock their creative potential and find greater satisfaction, this book is a gem. Find it on Amazon here.

Autobiographies

Elon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future by Ashlee Vance
This biography of Elon Musk is nothing short of inspiring. The chronicle of Musk's journey, his unwavering determination and innovative spirit, has been a catalyst in my own pursuit of audacious goals. It's a must-read for anyone daring to dream big and create a more fantastical future. Find it on Amazon here.

Gandhi: An Autobiography - The Story of My Experiments With Truth
This seminal autobiography by Mahatma Gandhi is not just a book, but a journey into the life of a man who was an epitome of resilience, non-violence, and truth. His experiments with truth and his principles have greatly shaped my own approach to life and its challenges. A must-read for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of resilience and the power of peaceful resistance. Find it on Amazon here.

The Autobiography of Malcolm X
Malcolm X's autobiography is a powerful and stirring account of one man's evolution in the face of adversity. His courage, outspoken nature, and unyielding belief in justice and equality have been a source of inspiration. This book is a testament to the transformative power of self-belief and resilience. Find it on Amazon here.

Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda
This book is a profound spiritual classic, and Yogananda's journey towards self-realization is an enlightening read. The wisdom and insights it offers have been instrumental in deepening my own spiritual understanding. If you're on a spiritual journey, this book is an invaluable guide. Find it on Amazon here.

Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain
Bourdain's candid and unvarnished account of his journey through the culinary world is an exciting and deeply human read. I absolutely loved this book. It's a journey into savoring life and all its flavors and to always seek the unexpected. An essential read for food lovers and adventurers alike. Find it on Amazon here.

This is Going to Hurt by Nikki Sixx
Nikki Sixx's "This is Going to Hurt" is an unflinching, raw, and deeply moving narrative that chronicles his tumultuous journey through addiction, recovery, and redemption. As one of the founding members of the legendary rock band Mötley Crüe, Sixx shares his experiences with brutal honesty. This book offers a profound exploration of the human spirit and its capacity for resilience. It's a stark reminder that even in the throes of despair, there's always a way out, a way to heal, and a way to hurt less. A true testament to the power of transformation, "This is an essential read for anyone grappling with their own demons. It's available on Amazon here.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig
Pirsig's philosophical novel is a compelling exploration of life, quality, and self-discovery. This book has been instrumental in shaping my understanding the pursuit of quality in every aspect of life. For anyone embarking on a journey of self-discovery, this book is an awesome read. Find it on Amazon here.

Books on Writing

Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott
This book is a gem for every writer or aspiring writer. Lamott's wisdom, delivered with her characteristic humor and grace, provides practical and inspiring advice that has greatly influenced my own writing journey. The essence of her teaching, to take things 'bird by bird', has not only improved my craft but also helped me navigate life's challenges using the same perspective For anyone looking to unlock their creativity and express themselves through words, this book is a must. Find it on Amazon here.

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King
Stephen King's book on the art of writing is a treasure trove of insights and practical advice. His candid and witty style, combined with his wealth of experience, has significantly shaped my approach to writing. It's an indispensable resource for anyone with a passion for the written word and it's also super entertaining. For anyone who seeks to master their craft, this book offers invaluable guidance. Find it on Amazon here.

The Boron Letters by Gary C. Halbert
The Boron Letters is a classic for any serious marketer or copywriter. Written by the late Gary C. Halbert, these letters to his son from prison are a masterclass in direct response marketing. Halbert's teachings, peppered with real-life wisdom, resonate with me deeply. The blend of personal stories, marketing principles, and timeless wisdom offer a unique, engaging reading experience. Even if you're not in marketing, Halbert's raw honesty and passion make it a worthwhile read. A must-have for anyone looking to sharpen their persuasion and writing skills. Find it on Amazon here.

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
Pressfield's book is a call to arms for every artist struggling with the internal battle of creation. His insights into the nature of resistance and the creative process have been invaluable in my own journey as a creator. This is a book that every artist should have in their arsenal. You can find it on Amazon here.

Do the Work by Steven Pressfield
This book is a motivational powerhouse, spurring the reader to push through obstacles and get things done. Pressfield's no-nonsense approach to tackling resistance will help any writer in overcoming procrastination and self-doubt. This is a book that propels action. You can find it on Amazon here.

Art and Fear by David Bayles and Ted Orland
"Art and Fear" is an intimate exploration of the creative process, highlighting the courage it takes to create. It dissects common fears artists face, from judgement to feelings of inadequacy, providing valuable insights to conquer these barriers. An essential companion for anyone on the creative journey, this book reassures us that fear and doubt are inherent parts of the creative process that everyone experiences. It's available on Amazon here.